Relationship property, separation and new relationship advice in Nelson

Pitt & Moore & your relationships

We offer clear, steady guidance when relationships change and when new ones begin.

When your relationship changes, you do not have to face it alone. Separation brings uncertainty about your home, your finances and your future. Starting a new relationship can raise important questions about protecting assets, children and long-term security.

Early advice from Pitt & Moore’s experienced relationship property lawyers can reduce stress, prevent costly mistakes and help you move forward with clarity.

At Pitt & Moore, our family law team provides practical, balanced advice on separation, division of relationship property and contracting out agreements. We focus on fair outcomes, not unnecessary conflict, and we take the time to guide you calmly through each step.

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Speak with our family law team

Whether you are separating, protecting assets, or planning a new relationship, early legal advice makes a difference.

Contact us today to discuss your next steps.

Andrea Halloran

Partner
andrea.halloran@pittandmoore.co.nz
DDI: +64 3 545 6701

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Emma Marshall

Consultant
emma.marshall@pittandmoore.co.nz
DDI: +64 3 545 6703

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Marty Logan

Consultant
marty.logan@pittandmoore.co.nz
DDI: +64 3 545 6719

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Robert Brinkworth

Associate
robert.brinkworth@pittandmoore.co.nz
DDI: +64 3 545 7897

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Separation and division of relationship property

In most cases, relationship property in New Zealand is divided equally. However, every situation is different. Factors such as trusts, inheritances, business ownership and the length of the relationship can affect outcomes.

Clear early advice from a separation lawyer helps you understand your position and avoid decisions that may compromise your financial future. We aim to resolve matters efficiently and with dignity through negotiation or mediation wherever possible.

If you are separating, you may need advice on:

New relationships and protecting your assets

Starting a new relationship is a positive step, but it is also important to understand how the law applies.

Under New Zealand’s Property (Relationships) Act, property rights can arise after three years of living together, and sometimes sooner. Without planning, assets you owned before the relationship may become relationship property.

You may need advice if:

Seeking advice early allows you to make informed decisions before legal rights automatically attach.

Contracting out agreements (prenups)

A contracting out agreement, often called a prenup, allows couples to decide in advance how property will be divided if their relationship ends.

For a contracting out agreement to be legally enforceable, both parties must receive independent legal advice, and strict statutory requirements must be met.

We provide clear advice and careful drafting to ensure agreements are robust and properly executed.

These agreements are particularly important where:

A calm, considered approach to family law

Separation and financial change are deeply personal. Some clients want to resolve matters quietly and quickly. Others are navigating more complex or emotionally charged circumstances.

Where matters can be resolved without court proceedings, we prioritise respectful negotiation. If court action is required, you will be represented decisively and with care.

Our approach is steady, strategic and proportionate. We:

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Integrated advice where property or business is involved

Relationship property matters often intersect with residential property transfers, trusts or business restructuring.

As a full-service Nelson law firm, our family law team works closely with our property, trust and commercial lawyers. This integrated approach reduces complexity and ensures your wider financial interests are protected.

Common questions about separation and new relationships

No. Many people seek advice simply to understand their options. Clear guidance often reduces stress and conflict.
Not at all. Many relationship property matters are resolved through negotiation or mediation. Court is only one option.
In many cases, yes — particularly if you wish to protect assets, provide certainty for children from a previous relationship, or safeguard a business or inheritance.
We provide proportionate, cost-conscious advice and discuss likely pathways and costs early, so there are no unnecessary surprises.

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Taking the first step  

You do not need to have everything worked out before speaking with us.

Whether you are separating, negotiating a property settlement, or planning a new relationship, we are here to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

Talk with our family law team